Cancer affects more than just your health – it can impact your confidence, your identity and, for many people, their ability to work. But we can all help make it easier to cope:
1. Start by listening
There are more than 200 types of cancer, and no two experiences are the same. That’s why it’s important not to assume what someone needs. A simple starting point is to ask, “What would help you most right now?”
This is especially important at work. Many people worry about how they’ll be seen or whether their role is secure. Clear, kind conversations – and being open about what support is possible – can be very reassuring.
2. Help with their schedule
Cancer treatment is unpredictable. Appointments, side effects and fatigue can disrupt routines with little warning. That’s why giving someone space to adjust their plans really matters.
At work, this can mean being open to someone adjusting their hours, working from home, or taking a gentler return after time off. Outside work, a simple favour like offering a lift, helping with the school run, or cooking a meal can make life easier.
3. Saying the right thing
People living with cancer often worry about being treated differently. At the same time, many of us worry about saying the wrong thing – and end up saying nothing at all.
If you’re supporting a colleague, friend or loved one, Macmillan has clear, practical guidance on what can help and what to avoid.
4. The power of connection
Cancer often brings stress, anxiety, low mood and isolation. Research consistently shows that talking – especially with people who have been through cancer themselves – can really help.
That’s exactly why peer support networks exist. Some banks, including Lloyds and NatWest, run Cancer Cafés for colleagues, while charities such as Macmillan and Cancer Research UK offer online communities. Letting someone know these spaces are there can give them a safe way to talk to people who genuinely understand what they’re going through.
5. Make the most of the support on offer
If you’re still working, it’s worth checking what your employer already offers around cancer support and early detection. Some organisations provide health checks, screening programmes or specialist wellbeing support.
Knowing what’s available – before you need it – can make a real difference for you, your friends and colleagues.